this is one of my favorite poems by one of our country's best contemporary poets. we're so used to the demands to be nice. so used to constructing our niceties for the family or neighborhood. meanwhile we're frustrated by the demands while craving more authentic connections.
especially as women.
be nice. good girls do this or don't do that. we're supposed to be pleasing and agreeable.
especially as women.
we can strive for kindness.
http://elise.com/quotes/poetry/naomi.htm